Jalan raya!!!
As usual, my dad juz had to make this hari raya a memorable one. Last yr I was pissed at him for throwing his temper at me when he was e one at fault. Even my uncle had to come down and had a talk with me.
This yr, he made me pissed off again by inviting my wheelchair bound aunt, uncle and maid to stay at my house for months. Not only me lah... my mum also super pissed. He did not discuss wif the family or wat. My house is like super tiny and u wan to squeeze 3 more pple. Then ah, my house dun haf the lift on every floor yet. So how to get that aunt up and down the stairs? Also, from experience, my mum said, usually the temporary stay will bcum permanent.
I told my mum dat if the plan goes through, i will stay at my second sis house while looking for a place to rent. I m old enough to afford to rent my own rm. I juz dun haf to gif my dad the monthly money, can already. I haf waited 13 yrs to haf a room of my own. My privacy wun be easily taken away from me. My mum also said that she will leave the house if they come to stay wif us. we r talkin abt 3 pple, mind u. so, he got my aunt excited and my aunt turned to me and said she wants to live wif me but i m not even close to her! My first sis is much closer to her. i tink she wans to stay wif me juz bcos my face appeared in the newspaper. e thing is, i m not even sure i'd like my parents to stay wif me when i haf my own house, wat makes her tink i m gonna let my relatives stay wif me?? den ah, i m NOT going to share rm wif my sis again. We are much happier now. Ironically, the relationship between me and my sisters got better after we got our own rm and houses. I can joke wif dem now and tok to dem abt problems. Last time when we shared the same rm, we cant see eye to eye at all.
i may sound super mean ah... she did discipline my dad in e past cos my dad is forever gettin into trouble. she also did help my dad financially in e past. he ALWAYS make unwise decisions u see... but i feel dat there are always other ways of helping her out. staying wif us and making it inconvenient for both parties is not the best solution at all. sigh.. i juz wish my dad will get wiser each yr. but dats not gonna happen at all. niwae, my mum called my dad's other sisters and they talked to my dad already. so far, my dad made no mention of getting them to stay wif us. GOOD. the moment they step into house, OUT i go. i may sound dramatic, but if you are in my place for the past 23 yrs, u'd understand the battles i haf to go thru while staying in this house. sigh...
Besides that incident, nothing else went wrong... I had fun wearing my new baju. The cloth and lace is bought by moi. yah, i had fun cos the sleeves r big so i can swing dem arnd. In this pic, the small girl in pink is super duper cutelah!!!!!!!!!!!
I cant say the 'anak daras' any more cos two of them are already married.
somehow, our baju colours are the same!
This is my swt cuzzin. I was amazed at his attentiveness bcos when i reached home, i received sms from him askin me to take care of myself since i wasnt feelin well and i wondered how he knew i was sick. he replied saying dat i mentioned my nose was leaking. he is like super eligible bachelor lah. he is takin deg in physics in NUS and is now in the dance club. will see him this sunday!!!
