Sunday, July 27, 2008
1:02 PM
Pursuing Master

The convocation yesterday really motivated me further to continue to pursue my studies. There were tonnes of tchers pursuing them such that if i dun do it, i wun be in the trend. HAHA! So, me and this girl most probably will try to register ourselves next year in January for the Master course. Not sure if i would go all e way to PhD but I m taking one baby step at a time. I would prefer a part time Master so dat i can still earn money and get married. khekhe... but if i were to take part time Master, ling would have a headache. He said that i wun be ME anymore which is true i guess. I haf lotsa things in my head right now. Like, wat if I wanna take PhD, den wun the course that I take for Master matters? Also, do i really wan PhD? Y do I wan PhD? I tot I wanna be a tai-tai? Am i that smart to be labelled a Doctor? I dun think so.
So, I guess to make sure that i dun stress myself out I would take one step at a time.
Oh yah, my face appeared again in the newspaper yest and it was a surprise actually. I din noe that my face would appear again. As usual, they would pick the suckiest picture, My teeth looked as though I had braces and my eye was smaller than the other. URGH!!

This is the Melayu Boleh gang. Hehe... It is actually our Hari Raya gang... Actually got more pple but couldnt catch hold of dem. Even Rozi also not in the pic. I wanna jalan raya wif dem again!!! Hilarious bunch.
My gold medal. A couple of my frens had prize money for their awards but i din. I only had a gold medal. So i jokingly said that if i were to pawn the medal, i might get some money. To my pleasant surprise, I could!! Klah, it's only 9K gold but it is worth sth right if i pawn it?? HAHAH!!! k, i m not dat desperate.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
9:38 PM
I M SICK and i cant take MC.
no, i m not workaholic. i think. anyway, it's cos whenever i m not around, my kids became horrible. i've not been around much for two days as i had outside things to attend to. whenever i come back, i felt like a celebrity cos my colleagues would come to me to inform me abt my kids and it is always bad news. even the top pple scolded the kids.
i tink pple now dread having to take over my kids. it has reached the point that my colleague told me to take care of myself cos my kids cant do without me. i tink, it is more like they dun wan to haf to handle my kids.
so tmr, will haf to drag myself to work. if i take mc tmr, my colleagues would definitely kill me. haha! but, i muz say that i like my colleagues. they r ever so supportive. ;)
Wednesday, July 23, 2008
11:05 PM
HAPPY DAY
Today is a happie day for me cos it has been confirmed that LING HAS GOTTEN A JOB!!! KA-CHING!!!! his money is my money too u see...
i feel so proud of him. he has passed his 'mashmallow' test. i guess the downfall that he had a month back was a blessing in disguise as the current offer is much better than that one. he has finally gotten a job which he really wanted and he even told me that he liked the way the pple werk in this company.
best of all, HIS PAY IS HIGHER THAN MINE!!! so, there will be no more quarrels over money cos the past month has been a trying one as he din haf a job and i m the one wif the four figures entering into my bank every mth. there were the egos and the self-esteem thingy going on... now, he is doin even better than me. he is now under the professional scheme... kaching kaching.... yeay.... yes, lalala is all about the money...
however, not sure if it is unfortunate or fortunate, he will be werking in stat board. so, ehem ehem... both of us cant start a business which i badly want to do so that we can be rich at a quicker rate. anyway, let's take one step at a time.
we are now taking peeks at houses. hehe... there are already discussions about DBSS and BTO. i realised that my 3 yr plan is actually sooner than i expected especially when it deals with housing. i m NEVER going to stay wif my parents or HIS parents. NEVER!!!!
Saturday, July 12, 2008
10:41 PM
Life as a Tai Tai.... A Day of Pampering...
Today ling and I went to the massage parlor to haf a one half hour of pampering. I decided to gif my ling a treat after all that he has done for me and my room. Before going for the massage, he even installed my ceiling lamp, which was troublesome cos it was from a disc kind of ceiling light to the hanging one.

Anyway I decided to go to this place as I thought the price was reasonable. I paid $80 for one hour of full body massage and half an hour of body scrub. Actually, it is only $75 for 1 1/2hrs full body massage as the thomson branch was havin a discount. reasonable right? no pics were taken for obvious reasons.
Anyway, ling and I, we had our massages at separate cubicles, which are side-by-side, only separated by a curtain. So, I could hear his conversation with the masseuse from my cubicle.
It was hilarious I tell you. LIng gets 'geli' so ezly. He kept feeling ticklish. I could hear the massesuse keep telling him to relax or ask if it was ticklish for him. Ling actually wanted to have one hour of full body massage and 1/2 hour of 'back breaker'. but seeing that ling cannot take the pain, the masseuse advised him against taking the 'back breaker'. Haha!! So i told him to get a scrublah....
So, ling had the Papaya Scrub... heee..... I had the Goat's Milk one which smelled soooo lovely...
After the session, ling smelled of papaya and his skin felt so smooth... like a girl's... khekhekhe.... I told him he should go for facials next...
After that, we took our showers and were served ginger tea.
My rating for the massage I had is 7/10. I had better massages before and it's not cos the masseuse was not good. I was even massaged by this auntie from indonesia today. It is juz that the strokes and technique werent as good as the ones I had before. It was painful and I dun feel relaxed at all. I took the 'Smooth and Soothe' massage, not even the very traditional javanese one. If i had taken that, confirm cannot move my body.
If you want more details, you can go to its website: http://www.javanesemassage.com.sg/index.html
I think I would like to try massages at other places, especially the ones that have a real spa and jacuzzi. Whoa... that one would be best man.... so tai-tai...
Anyway, after that massage, ling and I headed down to ang mo kio to have our sushis at Ramen Ten. yum yum... wanted to eat my Icekimo ice cream but decided not to cos i'd be too full to eat sushis. sushis more impt. khekhe...
then, when we got back to my place, my auntie who lives in tamp was also here and she offered ling a lift home. so, it was truly a pampering day for him... minus the fact that he perspired and lost a lot of energy, trying to change my lamp for me. hehehe..
now, ling said that he wants to get foot massages. den i pity the apek who is going to massage his feet cos ling gets ticklish very ezly and that apek's face may be injured. hahah!!
i wan to go for more massage....
Tuesday, July 8, 2008
10:36 PM
Ok, it's time for me to thank the pple arnd me.

First and foremost, I'd like to thank ling who always told me that he's not appreciated, which is soooo wrong. He has been behind me all these while.. supporting me.. encouraging me... if "being wif ling" is a CCA, i'd confirm excel in it and bcum valedictorian. khekhe... I love him to bits and i feel dat without him, i can do better. oops!! without him, i wun haf come this far. i always feel thankful that god has paired us up together. love u lah ling!!!

These two are my kawan2 setia. These two girls haf helped me a lot in the sense that they love to slack and rilek one corner. so, they made me to bcum a less uptight person, who often do last minute work and influence me not to add more sambal to my assignments, if u get wat i mean. they are very very nice too!!! but they dun read my blog cos both of dem hate IT. sighz...
anyway, u noe wat, actually, there were a few pple who stepped on others and love to put extra sambal to their assignments and they still din get first class. moral of story, u dun need to succeed at the expense of others.

My parents. My dad with his cap cos he is going to his workplace after my ceremony. I dunno y my mum decided to dress down today. she's usually very glamorous. Anyway, I would like to thank my dad for paying the electricity and water bills. Also my house phone bill which is a lot cos i talk to ling every night until i fall asleep. My mum always gif me support by making sure i eat breakfast every morning.
sorry rozi, i cant thank u. i only thank pple which i haf photos of. khekhekhe..... upload photo!!!

In the van home... So happie!!!

Flowers from ling...I think they are soooo beautiful...

My cat thinks so too.... She love the flowers so much she ate them. Now my cat keeps coming to rm to chew on them. Not surprised if i wake up tmr to see some of my flowers botak.
Monday, July 7, 2008
11:12 PM
I was told that I'd be interviewed by the malay news tmr.
of cos i got excited!! I and baya were cracking jokes abt it. haha! i told her that i hate to see those malays who are interviewed to not to be able to speak malay properly. like, it's as though they'd want to show that they are not "malay-malay". like, they belong to the higher class of malays who do not like to be associated wif the typical malays and the activities and even the language itself.
den juz now, ling tried to interview me in malay and i had to answer in malay. TORTURE i tell u. i couldnt seem to find the correct words and it's not like i cant speak malay. my malay oral distinction u noe. mebe when i m under pressure to speak malay, i cant speak malay den. sighz... so, tmr i die lah. i cant speak malay. neh mind, i will try lah...
ling said that if i cant speak malay properly, they might even remove my clip from the news or mebe they turn off the sound so u only get to see me smiling. den liddat, confirm i wun be tokin in the news liaoz... den liddat ah, sorry rozi. i wun be able to mention ur name unless half hour before the interview u tok to me in full malay. khekhe...
Sunday, July 6, 2008
11:22 PM
My 'She-Man'!!!!

This is ling. He was cooking in the kitchen. Eh no. He is juz helping. not cooking. hehehe...

This is mashed potato mashed by ling. I haf finally perfected the art of making smooth and creamy mashed potato. Wanna noe the secret?? jus leave me a msg!!


Final product. The chicken is not burnt but we purposely made it crispy. Maybe a bit too crispy...

This is ling also. He was helping me put up the mirrors which I thought of juz this morning and we immediately headed down to Ikea wif my mom. We had a rough start with drilling the holes cos someone din wan to listen to my plan. I hate it when men dun listen to me. Esp my bfs and my ex. Its like I haf more sense than normal women. But no.... they want it their way.. fine... y cant they be thankful??? khekhekhe.....


Final product. I LOOOVE IT!! It made my rm so much bigger! Wanted to get a nice designed ceiling lamp but ling's choice was different from my mom's. And my choice was different from theirs. So in the end, we bought no lamps from Ikea. Actually we installed the wall shelf also but we din haf enough time to install the second shelf. It was already 10pm. I remembered that after ten we cant make so much noise. Sighz... Neh mind. Still got tmr. hehe...
I love ling...
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
10:17 PM
Everytime I look at my cat, I'd cry.
His will to live is so strong that it would be hard to haf to put him down. His tumour has grown so big that he has difficulty moving about. Vets painted a very negative picture whenever we sent him for operation.
I m willing to spend thousands of dollars on him but i tink right now, no amt of money can save him. If only he could talk, i'd like to noe if he still wans to live or if he wans to end the suffering.
I hate this feeling. I noe my mum tried to be strong in front of me but i noe she doesnt noe wat to do either.
To others, it may juz b a cat, wif no thoughts, no mind of their own and no feelings. To those who haf cats, I m sure they agree that cats haf feelings and they haf thoughts. I even noe that cats do haf dreams when they r slpin. juz like us.
I feel like i m losing a half-brother. He has been around for about 10 yrs now.
It'd be difficult for me.